Yonks ago, the ideal woman was thought to be completely passive, with no purpose for her existence but to serve her husband. Today, such woman is considered an abomination and an insult to the entirety of the female gender. However, I claim that this is not an example of female oppression but a character trait that is very much inborn in some women, and as such, should be respected like any other natural trait.

What is even more common than this, are women who are sexually passive. Their excitement comes from his excitement; being able to be everything her husband(s) need, to stretch to any sexual need – apart perhaps from one; taking charge. I am not necessarily talking about a sexual slave, in the stereotypical sense, masks, whips, and the like, but an even more common fetish; a woman who simply wants to get a guy off, and who comes like a lightning as long as her lover hasn’t given one thought to what she wants or needs, but satisfied himself alone; and as he gets satisfied, she will, too.

Such men exist, too. His pleasure comes entirely from her pleasure. I don’t know how common other women feel these men are, but from a submissive/passive’s perspective, they are an epidemic! With the feminist ideas of female oppression and woman on top -attitudes it’s hard to find a guy who would be brave enough to risk sexual assault charges that will one day drive them off their chances of winning a presidency considering the entertaining fact that it is really difficult to tell the difference between a sexually passive woman who wants the guy to continue even though she doesn’t encourage him, and a terrified woman who believes uttering one word in objection will get her brutally raped by this man. (Usually, the fear is in vain, when he notices she’s not interested, he will stop. Men who love sexually passive women are not rapists, but certainly have that reputation.)

Women who are sexually passive by their fetish feel utterly frustrated by the eternal demand to be active and “equal” in bed, and the societally imposed necessity to encourage men to take the next step when they seem paralyzed with insecurities and the lack of a 7-page permission document giving written consent to these *tick a box* sexual deeds before he dares to proceed.

What category do you fall in? Active, passive, dominant, submissive?

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